Thursday, August 31, 2006
Fairy Doors
Monday, August 28, 2006
1930-2006
*When my grandma was really young she got run over by a truck. She was okay with the exception of a broken arm and a torn coat. The truck driver bought her a new coat and that was that. Apparently a new coat for a broken arm is a good deal when it's the Depression.
*My grandma wanted to join the WAACs, but she wasn't 21 yet and my great grandmother wouldn't sign the permission papers.
*When my grandma was young, her best friend was a girl named Becky. She was in Becky's wedding and everything. I guess Becky had some sort of health problem, and the doctors told her she shouldn't have kids. She ignored them, got pregnant and then died shortly after the baby was born. My grandma was crushed.
*My grandma's first job was at an ice cream parlor called Snow White's. It was owned by a Greek family. They had violated copyright law and painted a huge mural portraying the movie on the walls.
*My grandparents got married right before my grandpa shipped out for Korea.
*My grandparents had three kids: officially Michele, Diane and Daniel Jr. They went by Mickey, Di and Dee. When my grandma was 50, she had a hysterectomy. After that she converted to Catholicism.
*After the war my grandpa owned a store (the family refers to it as a pony keg--I guess it was a little grocery store). Apparently everyone worked their ass off and there wasn't much money. My grandma loved potatoes and for Xmas one year my gpa had a huge potato gift wrapped. My gma got really excited when she saw it and was so disappointed when she opened it that she cried. (This makes my gpa sound like a jerk, but he isnt. They really really loved each other.)
*When she was younger she supposedly had dreams that later came true. She said she hated it.
*My grandma went back to work after my gpa sold the pony keg. She worked as a bookkeeper at a big company and ended up as head bookkeeper by the time she retired. HS diploma only.
*My grandma and great gma both sewed very well. They made my mom and aunt's prom dresses and other special event outfits. When I was little she made me princess dresses.
*My grandma collected Santas and Snow White figurines.
*She and my grandpa danced several times a week, both round and square dancing, until my gma was rear-ended by a miatta four years ago.
*For family events she always made this really good macaroni and cheese in addition to whatever else was holiday appropriate. At easter she made jello eggs, including some sugar free ones for the adults.
*She collected bicentennial quarters. My grandpa puts away a quarter a day for everyone of his grandkids. When we sorted them, he would buy off the bicentenniels from us for a dollar and then give them to my grandma.
*She liked crosswords, talking on the phone, trashy magazines like Star, ice cream, the Reds, the Price is Right, and the occasional really cold beer on really hot days. She didn't like her green beans half done.
*When I was a kid she for some reason picked at a scab, mosquito bite, or splinter on my forearm until it scarred.
*We have the same pink birthmark in the same place on our palms. No one else in the family seems to have it.
*My grandma had one granddaughter (me) and 6 grandsons.
*When my grandma was 69, she refused to say how old she was because my cousin told her what it meant.
*She retired early to help take care of my cousin Jack. In recent years, Jack would leave work whenever my grandma fell to help pick her up.
*When she was in the hospital, my grandpa would refer to her as "my little girl" and she would become amused and exasperated because "here I am, an old lady."
*She told my mom that the whole family had all been acting so queer that she asked the doctor herself and he told her that she had cancer through her spine, shoulders, and pelvis. At any rate my mom shouldn't worry anymore because my grandma knew.
*I talked to my grandma for the last time on August 18 2006 at 4:18 pm. She slipped into unconsciousness August 19.
*My grandma died on August 22 2006. Over three hundred people came to her funeral. The mass was conducted by a priest referred to as the cowboy priest because he breaks horses in his spare time. My grandma thought he was cute.
*I love you grandma. We're sure going to miss you.
Thursday, August 17, 2006
Project Runway Fugging
1--Vincent's dress.
2--The judges and Tim Gunn are diverging often this year. That makes me not trust the judges even more than the fact that I disagree with them.
3--The judges' particular distaste that Alison would make her dress 'unflattering' even though she's a woman really leaves a bad taste in my mouth. First of all, we don't need any higher standard for women designers bullshit. And second, Alison tends to wear a lot of large silhouettes herself. I think it's a problem to suggest that flattering a small waist is pro-woman and (possibly) advocating a not-hourglass-aesthetic for women is not. God forbid we don't all have hourglass figures! (ps I borrowed the image that would show the unhourglass outfits Alison wears from myaimistrue.com; I can't figure out how to lift images off of Bravo's site. Thanks myaimistrue!)
Wednesday, August 16, 2006
Birch Bayh Evan Bayh
"We must recognize the enormous effort that is going to be required to be successful. I don’t mean just passing a slip of paper that happens to be appended, whether it is the 26th, 27th, or 28th amendment to the Constitution, but ultimately implementing this at the marketplace, job marketplace, in the court, and at the law office where contracts are written or where divorce proceedings are consummated, I just cannot see how we are really going to escape the need for maximum effort to pursue litigation in the courts, whether it is a constitutional amendment or statute to the 1964 voting rights statute."
Original NYT article: (http://www.nytimes.com/2006/08/14/washington/14sons.html)
Nurture
http://scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?chanID=sa006&colID=1&articleID=00010347-101C-14C1-8F9E83414B7F4945
I'm always a bit skeptical about this sort of science, but I have to admit that I like the idea that nurture has a much bigger part to play in all of our lives than we realize.
Tuesday, August 15, 2006
Girl Power
Family Ties
Wednesday, August 02, 2006
More fashion, dear lord
Summer TV
It's so nice to have Project Runway back. I don't really have any favorites yet, at least not like Diana Eng from season 2. But there's been some super nice clothes AND nice scandals (Keith! what are you doing? Vincent! are you okay? Malan! do you remind me of Mr. Bean on purpose? Michael! why don't you get more attention?) . Welcome back Tim's Take! (photo courtesy of bloggingprojectrunway.blogspot.com; I still don't understand why Daniel Franco is in there, other than I guess he was in every other season).
Hex is on BBC America and it's awesome. The NYT told me about it, hooking me with Buffy for people who are upset they didn't watch Buffy and who also love England. That's me! It started a little slow, but picked up and then threw a huge twist at me that I didn't see coming from a mile away.
Better blog
Paul and Joe, triumphant and broke
I went to both city Targets earlier this week and managed to find a couple of the Paul and Joe items I had wanted (apron shirt and red cords not pictured online) but not all. Then Stephan was in the suburbs scouting for a commercial and found the two things I wanted most. Of course they were the two kimono items. I really like that a lot of the Paul and Joe items tie in the back under the bust (not just the kimonos; the apron shirt too). I don't know about the rest of you ladies but those of us on the flat side find this to be quite flattering. Thinner AND bustier than usual.
The only things I haven't bought that I really want are a bag (also not pictured online yet but in the ads at target) and this coat. I haven't seen the bag yet and I certainly don't need it. But I have seen the coat and it's AWESOME. I felt like I was in Harry Potter when I tried it on. But it's 60 bucks, and I don't need it for any reason since I already have a very amazing fall coat which is the most complimented item of clothing I wear--I swear, perfect strangers approach me on a regular basis in that coat (including the ladies in a boutique a friend of mine refers to as the snobby store). And Stephan says it matches my hair, which is oddly true.